Communication

Do you know what you generate around you?

Written by Lucian on Jan 17, 2012 in Communication, People | 0 comments

Did you ever wondered if your behavior could generate drama or happiness around you? Not only in yourself?
Did you ever wondered if your behavior has a role in the functionality of your team or organization?

Behaviors and triggers

Everything you do is communication. I didn’t study so much NLP, but as far as I know, this is one of the grounding principles there.

I will be more focused in this article, about the symbols people assign to this principle.
Here is an example of what behavior can trigger, even in your absence:
Let’s say you were invited to an event.
Now, you decide to say no to the invitation and not show up to that event.
Do you think that your answer is a communication for the ones present there?

Care about people without compromise

Written by Lucian on Dec 13, 2011 in Communication, Motivational, People | 0 comments

If you say that you care about people, then do it without compromise.

The worst thing you can do is tell people you care about them and then act like you don’t care.

Usually they will see or sense somehow that something is not working or is wrong.

You’re creating confusions and false expectations and in the end it is coming back to you.

It is the same way in companies: If you as a company say people are one of your core values, then act like this.

Walk the talk.

There are no excuses. And there should be no exceptions.

If happens to get of the track, fix it.
Don’t waste time on excuses and stories. Act and fix it.

Care is more a verb than a noun. So act.

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Coaching for coaches – a training that I enjoyed

Written by Lucian on Apr 14, 2011 in Communication, Featured, Life | 5 comments

What does it mean a training for coaching and why should I go there?

I had this ideea in mind when I applied to Training for Practical communication and Coaching, training organized by Synergy and Olde Vechte foundation.

Before going to this training I’ve already been in Ommen, Holland at Olde Vecthe Foundation 4 times:
- as participant at Basic Training
- as participant at Advanced Training (now evolved and called Choice)
- as co-trainer at Advanced Training
- as participant at Training for Trainers

I really enjoyed all the experiences there.
All trainings follow a unity in approaches and method: they create a space to fully express yourself, to discover and develop your strenghts.

For me this training was about core qualities

Consciousness Communication – Open Training, Bucharest, 4-5 December 2010

Written by Lucian on Nov 13, 2010 in Communication | 1 comment

Did you ever asked yourself:

What is the influence of your image on your communication with others?

or maybe

What is the most useful way to give and receive negative and positive feedback?

or

What means to be responsible in communication?

or

How the perception influence the communication and how to deal with it?

photo credit: joshfassbind.com

Or did you ever wanted to discover your communication barrieres, that limits you to say what you want and feel free to express yourself in order to achieve your goals.

Then you should subscribe to the Consciousness Communication
This training is only for people who speak Romanian language and will happend in Bucharest on 4th and 5th December 2010.

You can read about what other participants said after this training here: http://training.ghinda.com/#despre-traineri

The price for both training days is 95 RON. This costs includes only the training room reservation and the materials. We want to keep the costs low so that many people can have access to this type of training.
So we are delivering voluntarily the training without any personal financiar benefits.

If you’re interested about this training please read the full description of it and how to subscribe here: http://training.ghinda.com/

Please share about this training among your friends. Cause you never know which one of your friends would want to improve his/her personal communication skills.

Monday Saying – 6th September 2010

Written by Lucian on Sep 6, 2010 in Communication | 0 comments

The hard thing about communication is how to tell someone exactly what is really in my mind.

The days pass searching for an answer that might be already there.

And I feel so complete when I can say exactly what I think and I know that the other person makes no assumptions.
Freedom is one sense of communication.

Applied Accelerated Learning

Written by Lucian on Aug 10, 2010 in Communication, Featured, Management | 0 comments

Here are two presentations designed with Mihail Musat (musat.com.ro) for Iashington.

The design of trainings is made with total involvement of participants and created based on their questions.

What we did?
We asked participants to put their questions with one day before and we choose 6 of them to be addressed in the training.