Where we are now Often I can notice thinking on a short scale. And I’m not referring here at living the moment – which is a wonderful thing. I’m talking Read more…
Started from a post written for a personal development project I’m taking part – Whichway, I’m writing here a list with possible sources of happiness. Some of them might work Read more…
Auto-pilot Many times we are on auto-pilot. Automatically responding to what happens in our lives, to what triggers our social and personal auto-mechanisms. We’re believing most of what we hear. Read more…
Perception creates images So, we are communicating every moment. And like someone said (don’t remember who right now):” You cannot not communicate”. Let’s analyze a little how our minds work Read more…
Sometimes I procrastinate. The brain needs its time out.
And sometimes I really want to get a new perspective on things.
photo credit: seier+seier
I’ve found these days a beautiful solution to change the state and become more productive or get a new perspective and it is very simple:
Working on a different desk.
Or in another words: just changing the current location.
It is simple, easy to do and very productive » Read more: Change the desk
Autonomy is one of the big points that improves leadership and allows a person to take good decisions.
One of the big instruments that gives power to autonomy is the awareness of our needs.
Why is this important? Because when you know your needs, then you know what is determining some of your behaviors. And just by knowing this, you improve your autonomy.
Every person has needs and not recognizing this means you just ignore a true fact: you, like anyone else have needs.
What to do about needs:
Acknowledge your needs and understand them well. You should know very well your needs, cause there is no one on this world that should know them better, than yourself.
Be aware that you are the only one who can » Read more: Awareness of needs – a path to autonomy
So there is a misconception saying that “We need to have something before being or acting”.
And I will explain about this with some short examples:
- We want to have respect of the others, before respecting them (before being respectful to them)
- We want to have understanding of others, before we try to understand them
- We want to have attention of others, before we pay attention to them
- We want to have forgiveness of others, before we forgive them
- We want to have caring of others, before we care about them
- We want to have love of others, before loving them
And here the list is as long as we want to make it.
What is the trick here?
Some people consider » Read more: Before having is being
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